Insights on Care Work, Relationships, and Reimagining the Status Quo
Welcome to my blog, where I dig into the messy, beautiful work of care, at home and in the world. I write about domestic equity, weaponized incompetence, the mental load, and how we can shift out of outdated relationship norms toward more aligned, collaborative systems. Find posts here and on Substack.

No More Mediocre

What is the Nag Paradox?

Effort, Impact, and Household Equity

When incompetence is weaponized

Questions That Help Us Grow

A Brave Choice

From Clueless to Collaborative: How to Start Sharing the Load at Home

From Home Ec to Home Eq(uity)

It’s more than just a party

So you want to belong?
